Jennifer Blacklock

“Do you want to really live?
Would you love to live a long, happy life?
Then make sure you don’t speak evil words
or use deceptive speech!

Turn away from evil and do what is right!
Strive for peace and promote it!

The Lord pays attention to the godly
and hears their cry for help.

But the Lord opposes evildoers
and wipes out all memory of them from the earth.”

Psalm 34:12-16

Sometimes, we find ourselves in situations that are deeply unfair, or at least feel that way. Whether actually unjust or not it can be tempting in such times to swing from one extreme- demanding justice at any cost- to the opposite end of the spectrum, that of passive despair.

But better and more helpful than either extreme is a balanced, peaceful assertiveness. “Strive for peace and promote it”. This is not passive; it’s not accepting defeat. It’s also not hostile or rude. 

I came across a great definition for gentleness or meekness, a fruit of the Spirit: “strength under control”. True gentleness/meekness that ushers in peace is not bashful- it’s strong. Firm. Bold. But it’s also disciplined and wisely directed.

Jesus was meek and gentle. Yet He often said what people didn’t want to hear, and He never compromised or let go in any way of His mission.

Being a peaceful person doesn’t mean a passive person by any means- the opposite actually. A peacemaker is active. A maker- creator, designer- of peace.

I sure don’t have it all figured out- I only just started learning how to not be a people pleaser! Now I’m having to learn the opposite end of things- keeping a respectful disposition and compassionate heart in the middle of conflict with outsiders or authorities. But by prayerfully aiming for peace in conflicts we honor ourselves, others, and our Savior.

“If it is possible, as far as it depends on you, live at peace with everyone.”

Romans 12:18